I recently broke up with my boyfriend of 3 years. Not because I didn't love him, but because it didn't go anywhere. I am 8 years older than him, but age was not a factor. What was a factor was that in the 3 years we were together, he was not able to get a job. I know it was not exactly from lack of trying, but.. the relationship needs stability and assurance that we have the foundation to take the next step into marriage... He's also sweet, and lovely, and he tries his best to spend time with me, even...