I still miss my ex a lot she might not be perfect but for me she was very important I loved her but because of some cultural issues and many different reasons I can't talk to her,she is also not texting me (most probably she might be thinking that i would forget everything if she didn't talk me or text me), and im also not texting her for same reason, I love her lot she is one of the best girl i ever met in my life but our chances of getting together are very very low and i don't...I still miss my ex a lot she might not be perfect but for me she was very important I loved her but because of some cultural issues and many different reasons I can't talk to her,she is also not texting me (most probably she might be thinking that i would forget everything if she didn't talk me or text me), and im also not texting her for same reason, I love her lot she is one of the best girl i ever met in my life but our chances of getting together are very very low and i don't want her to suffer because more because of me that is why i am too ignoring her but i everyday think about her ,if i get chance to get together with her without making mess between families i would never lose that chance, I love you so much honey 😢💔
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I started working with this guy two summers ago and caught feelings fast (I want to preface: he has autism, and I think that some of his actions can be explained by his neurodivergence and symptoms). I never asked him out because I was terrified, going to university out of town in the fall, and couldn’t tell whether he liked me back. The next summer, I came back to work at the same place. My feelings developed again. The day before I was going to ask him out, I found out he had a girlfriend. From what I had heard,...I started working with this guy two summers ago and caught feelings fast (I want to preface: he has autism, and I think that some of his actions can be explained by his neurodivergence and symptoms). I never asked him out because I was terrified, going to university out of town in the fall, and couldn’t tell whether he liked me back. The next summer, I came back to work at the same place. My feelings developed again. The day before I was going to ask him out, I found out he had a girlfriend. From what I had heard, she’s cheated previously, she is an overall mean person, and extremely controlling.
The rest of that summer, it felt like he was into me. He’d go out of his way to do things for me, touch me in a more-than-friendly way, and the vibe I got was way more than friends.
Eventually, I told him I needed space from him at work and our friendship, as I had feelings, and his actions were making it worse. He responded with “I liked you the entire time” and “I would date you if I weren’t dating [his girlfriend]”.
I vowed to step away from him despite him saying we should still stay friends. It felt like I was a backup, but it still hurt seeing him with her.
I didn’t talk to him for 8 months and now I am back at the same job with him, for the third summer. His girlfriend is now working there, too.
He is continuing the way he acted last year and, essentially, making it sound like he hates being with her while also subtly mentioning the past between us. It’s not as hard as things were last summer, but it’s still debilitating. And— despite his girlfriend being a bad person, I feel bad for her. Nobody should be in a relationship where your partner hates you.
It’s quite toxic all around, but somehow I still have feelings for him. I want to give him the benefit of the doubt and think it might be a lack of social abilities on his part, but I’m not sure. Either way, I’ve told myself that if I ever get the chance with him, there are many conversations to be had between him and I and this situation before I ever consider dating him.
I met this guy on tinder a few days ago and I'm already head over heels for him. I know, it's been a few days and I'm jumping the gun. But he's literally everything I have dreamed of. He's funny, adorable, and a nerd. I LOVE NERDS. I LOVE NERDS SO MUCH. He's been flirting with me, we started sharing our thoughts with eachother, and we have a similar mindset. I already feel a connection to him, and I wish there wasn't an ocean separating us. God I love him so much. My heart skips a beat when he texts,...I met this guy on tinder a few days ago and I'm already head over heels for him. I know, it's been a few days and I'm jumping the gun. But he's literally everything I have dreamed of. He's funny, adorable, and a nerd. I LOVE NERDS. I LOVE NERDS SO MUCH. He's been flirting with me, we started sharing our thoughts with eachother, and we have a similar mindset. I already feel a connection to him, and I wish there wasn't an ocean separating us. God I love him so much. My heart skips a beat when he texts, I cannot stop smiling when I see his picture. I stare at his picture often because he's just so fucking cute. Praying I marry him one day...
I feel it's all getting to be too much for me. I hate to disappoint people but the fear of doing that makes that I become indecisive and then end up disappointing people. I feel like I'm juggling with too many balls, all the time. I don't know how much longer I can go on.
Honestly I’m too much of a coward to reach back out after I left without saying much back in 2023, but I will always admire your optimism, your tenacity, your smile – your eagerness to help/please others. I have doubts that you even think of me at all or care, really, as you are not one to lament or dwell on the past, and I wish I could be like that, too. I wonder how things would have been had we met under different circumstances (earlier maybe? before we both had ties to others and, in your case, kids)....Honestly I’m too much of a coward to reach back out after I left without saying much back in 2023, but I will always admire your optimism, your tenacity, your smile – your eagerness to help/please others. I have doubts that you even think of me at all or care, really, as you are not one to lament or dwell on the past, and I wish I could be like that, too. I wonder how things would have been had we met under different circumstances (earlier maybe? before we both had ties to others and, in your case, kids). Then again, I am well aware that’s probably not possible due to observances/tradition. I probably read it wrong and perhaps you didn’t feel the same. Heck, I didn’t even recognize I had romantic feelings for you until I was long gone (and I finally worked up the nerve to read the last email I got from you, nearly a year later). I shoved everything else aside for work (and the mountain of things that always needed to be done), so I never even thought of you as anything else but my boss back then. I never forgot the day we had a meeting over lunch and you exclaimed “you’ll be so proud of me!” as you pulled out a pen & paper explaining that you’d take notes on what I had to tell you this time. That big smile on your face and your eyes all lit up - not only did I chuckle (on the inside), but I think your kindness and good heart really shone through to me that day, on a profound and personal level, even with all the chaos going on during that time. At least, its what I recall about you most, in hindsight. Sometimes I want to reach out and tell you these things, just to get it off my chest once and for all, and to ask out if curiosity if there was any romantic feelings you had for me back then. I'm aloof, and not always the best at reading these situations. Then I also recall wanting to reach out, with the way things became toward the end of that year - I worried for your safety and those you cared for/knew, too. It was hard reading the news during that time. But again I couldn't bring myself to do so. Anyway, I don't have much more I'd like to share here, but please take good care of yourself/family/friends etc, as I know you will, and know that you will always be missed and adored, even if the feeling is not mutual, you are someone I will never forget.
2 guys I am friends with have a crush on me, I can't decide who to choose at the time because I'm so scared of making choices(yes I know I'm weak) (and they know each other).
So A, after seeing me being this indecisive, said he would stop pursuing me, but not long after that I kissed the other guy(B) and had a relationship with B secretly without telling our common friends until now. B is really kind and he is so gentle, I cherish him very much, but sometimes I still think about what if I choose A in...2 guys I am friends with have a crush on me, I can't decide who to choose at the time because I'm so scared of making choices(yes I know I'm weak) (and they know each other).
So A, after seeing me being this indecisive, said he would stop pursuing me, but not long after that I kissed the other guy(B) and had a relationship with B secretly without telling our common friends until now. B is really kind and he is so gentle, I cherish him very much, but sometimes I still think about what if I choose A in the first place?
I sometimes feel guilty because of thinking about A, but deep down I know that A (probably) won't tolerate my stupid ass like B did.
Sorry A, thanks for all the memories, I'm so happy to be able to talk with someone who has the same interests as me. We don't talk anymore and I sincerely wish all the best for you.
I miss my ex. We spent 6 years together and he broke up with me over the most insignificant thing. I pretend I’m fine, but I’m screaming for him to come back to me. I miss his voice, the way he talked about his interests, everything about him. I still love him.
I have the man of my dreams. I love him very much. We've been together 6 months.. but I can't stop missing my ex and I feel awful about it. My ex was abusive and assaulted me and cheated on me.. I wish I could just forget him. But the trauma bond is strong. I sometimes feel like I should leave my partner although his perfect.. I feel as if I'm being dishonest or disloyal by missing my ex. I would never go back to my ex and don't engage with him.. however.. I can't shake this feeling.