I blocked my ex on everything
💝💝 I know you're carrying a lot right now, and my heart goes out to you. I can only imagine the hurt that led to this decision, and it makes complete sense that you'd want to protect your heart. Please hear me when I say that isn't a sign of failure at all—it's a sign of real wisdom.
What you did by blocking your ex doesn't come from a place of hate. It comes from a place of self-respect and stewardship. "Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it" (Proverbs 4:23).
You're simply guarding what God has entrusted to you, and that is a good thing.
I think it's so important to remember that you can forgive someone in your heart and still choose not to give them access to you. Forgiveness is about setting yourself free from the weight of bitterness. But reconciliation is different—it requires trust and safety. By creating this boundary, you aren't refusing to forgive; you're deciding to stop the cycle of pain. That is healthy and right.
God isn't a God of chaos and pain, but of peace and order. You've taken a step to remove a source of chaos from your life, and He looks at that and is pleased to see you walking toward the peace He offers.
Don't let anyone make you feel condemned for this. Your worth isn't found in keeping a toxic connection alive. Your worth is found in Christ, and you are taking brave steps to heal. He is with you in every part of it.
Here's a prayer we can hold onto:
"Jesus, thank you that you understand our need for peace. Please bring healing to my heart. Help me to forgive and release any bitterness, and to trust that this boundary is an act of wisdom. Protect their mind and guide their steps toward full healing. Amen."
I'm here for you. 💝
so did i and i feel so relieved honestly, no more negativity in life