i know my mom would have been happier if she never had met my dad and had me and my sister. it pains me so much. i wish i could go back in time and stop her so that she lived a different life, but at the same time, i like my life, and i hate thinking that the solution to my mom's depression would have been my non-existance??? idk if this makes any sense
Don't blame yourself.This was precisely how it was to happen or else,life would have corrected the situation.
Your mom has projected blame for her life choices on her children. Your conception is a wonderful gift to humanity and hopefully you will come to realize just how special you are. Embrace your contributions to the human race and learn to ignore your mom’s guilt shaming. Live, laugh and love yourself first and share your unique life with others.
You are not an accident! You need to love and respect your parents…but it sounds like you need to start living for yourself! Love your life….we are only on this earth for a short while.