My sister used my moms funeral as an extension of her wedding in hawaii. She dressed her in a hawiian blazer, the eulogy image was a picture of her at the beach wedding, and the theme song was her wedding song.ugh!!! She hated mom, didnt even ask me for any input (i was the favorite) my name wasnt even on the program, mom hated angels and her coffin was littered with angels. Also she demanded to put a cross on her and mom hated symbols like crosses. She literally beat me up in front of my moms coffin so i couldnt see her coffin. and all her friends looked at me like i shouldnt be there. plus her slide show was just a bunch of photos of my mom looking sick and weak.
A dead body is no person. Holding a grudge against them and taking revenge on them is going to agonize her only due to bad karma.
the other commenter is a bitch. this was your mum too. your sister sounds like a pretty selfish person. iām so sorry. may your mum rest in peace.