I'm in my late 40s. I've been married to my wife for over 20 years. I absolutely love her and the life we've made. However I also know I'm still madly in love with my ex-girlfriend, the girl I left behind to move to the city to chase my career. There hasn't been a day that's passed that I haven't thought about her. Recently she contacted me to reconnect me with her father. In doing so, she and I started to talk again and she admitted that the thoughts and feelings I have for her are mutual. Not a day has passed that she hasn't thought the same. But she's also married and has kids and super happy with her husband. Just like I am with my wife and my kids. But a part of our heart belongs to the other and we really have no idea what to do with that love other than just continue to lock it away. I truly love my wife. I also truly love my ex. And I have no idea what to do with those emotions.
Life is way too short, go and get your girl